I was just putting a pic on Facebook about dinner tonight.
I don't usually put pictures of my food on Facebook, but it's been a yummy day and sometimes I just have to celebrate that.
In reading the general comments on the post, I was reminded about something one of my oldest friends talked about a couple of Boxing Days ago, over a civilised champagne and leftovers.
Without giving away too much detail, I've been lucky enough to have some friends in my life for 51 years. We started primary school together, Year 1A. I don't clearly understand why there was 1A and 1B before year 2, there just was.
Sometimes we didn't see each other for quite a while, (as long as 37 years, in one case) but when we next saw each other the conversation just picked up from wherever we left off.
These are primary friends, from primary school (or Sunday School, or before). It was the 60's, we couldn't afford pre-primary.
There are friends from high school, again you lose contact for a while, but still sharing birthdays and collective (if growing vague in parts) memories. These are secondary friends. Not secondary in terms of importance, just arrival.
Then there are tertiary friends, university, work, other life events after high school. In some cases, these people have been in my life for 40 years now. We may not spend as much time together as we once did, but it's still as easy as it was when we were 18 or 25 years old - before kids, partners, life events. And we have lots of adventures to remember - or try not to mention. Sometimes we only see each other once or twice a year but every time we catch up it's special. Sometimes it's only electronically, but still important. Not tertiary in importance, just arrival.
And of course, there are sisters, more like 56 years, and still special. And offspring, mine and everybody else's. If you love your friends, how can you not love their kids?
I've been very lucky to have these all of these people in my life, and particularly lucky in that generally they all get along with each other. I'm really bad at sending cards and calling for no particular reason, luckily everyone seems to understand that.
Let's all celebrate our friends.
Friday, September 25, 2015
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
|Mid-century sideboard, mine. *Note: no mirror|
A friend, who lives quite close by, was out on the trawl for treasures when she came by a mid-century/late deco wooden and mirrored dressing table, alone in the back room of the house which was being cleared. She forked out the requisite dollars (not very many) and hauled it back to her burrow, where she and a friend unloaded it into the garage.
A lick of paint, a bit of sanding, and it was looking very schmick indeed, so my friend and her mate hauled it up into the bedroom, where it faced the bed.
This is Tasmania, it was winter. My friend was complaining that she couldn't warm the house, even with the wood heater and the gas heater and the sun shining through the big windows. Like my house, it has big windows to catch the sun and it isn't a cold house. She started to have aches and pains in her knees. She started to be woken in the night by a great weight on top of her, or pressing against her, in her bed. She was alone.
My friend's young grandaughter came to change for netball, but wouldn't change in the bedroom any more.
|Chest of drawers, spare room. No mirror.|
Further research by Friend 1 showed the dressing table had been owned by a pastor, of the old fashioned brimstone type.
She decided that the dressing table should leave her possession pretty urgently. In the meantime, she wanted to move it out of the bedroom. The friend who had helped her carry it in came by to help move it. Without anything in it, they could barely lift it. They managed to drag it into the hallway, with difficulty.
It was advertised super cheap on Gumtree and Facebook, but no-one who expressed an interest turned up. After a night, the girls gathered their strength and managed to drag it out onto the front veranda, where it sat, mirror to the wall, sulking.
|Occasional table, no mirror|
It eventually sold for a pittance and was removed. It either wanted to go or the people were very strong. Or it had found out about the plan to drop it into the pit at the tip, where it would go one on one with the big bulldozer. My money was on the bulldozer.
I still can't look at furniture involving mirrors.